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Irritation Anger – 0 – Title Slide

This is the last video in the series on Encounter basics. In the previous two, I discussed Discovery and Listening techniques, and in this one I will comment on how these techniques can be used, and must be adjusted, when working with unhappy clients.

Listening – 0 – Title Slide

This is the fifth video on Encounter basics. In the previous one, I discussed the Discovery technique, in particular the use of questioning to gather information. But asking questions is pretty useless if I don’t know how to listen to the answers, and listening is a...

Irritation Anger – 2 – Dealing with Irritation and Anger

This is a short module because, if it weren’t, I would have to repeat myself an awful lot. That’s because many of the techniques that have been in covered in the earlier Encounter Basics videos – particularly those associated with Discovery – are central to dealing...

Irritation Anger – 4 – Final Thoughts

I mentioned the danger of making expensive promises! Be aware that anger, or any sign of discontent, is a manipulation weapon that some customers use. By making suppliers feel bad, they can extract promises of more support, lower prices, and so on. This is just one...

Irritation Anger – 3 – Timing

It’s all about timing. Assume, for the moment, that I am faced with a client who is extremely angry, as anger is easier to imagine than mild irritation. First of all, to counter any defensive reflexes that I may have, I adopt the mindset that the client’s feelings are...